Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, 27 January 2014

THE MEANING OF LIFE

I've mentioned before my surprise at today's young listing various electronic devices as 'essentials' before they think apparently of clothing or chairs or Marmite.  It just shows what these days we take for granted.  In my youth of course such devices didn't exist, so it's impossible to compare.  But I do remember deciding once that we couldn't afford a television or a telephone.  We chose to eat better.

So I was interested to see in a magazine interview that Cate Blanchett claimed that she was so poor when she was young that she couldn't afford a coffee every day.  So that is obviously what she  considers normal daily life.  It wasn't clear whether she had enough food to eat as well.

In another article, a journalist had recounted her experiences in the 'Celebrity' Big Brother House.  Never mind the bitching, the swearing, the sex, the uncouth behaviour generally, her criticism was about the standard of the toilet.  Maybe everything else passes as normal for her.

So I wonder what is essential for your daily life.  What can you not do without each day?  A television?  A daily coffee?  A clean toilet?  Personally I watch the TV in Currys, get my coffee free at Waitrose and use the loo in the community centre . . . 

Wednesday, 30 January 2013

HYPEROPIC VISION

You may remember that I stood on a chair before Christmas to put up some decorations and, as a friend pointed out, not having first conducted a health and safety audit, succeeded in putting my head through the pendant lamp.  It didn't hurt me.  But it destroyed the lamp.

Today, after weeks of negotiation and disagreement, we chose a new lamp - one that is almost flush with the ceiling and thus well away from my head.  Even standing on a chair.  And I fitted it!

The problem is, I can't really see.  From a distance, I'm fine.  From here, I can read a car number plate in the next village.  I can see the slightest movement of a cat in my shrubbery (and am not a bad shot with a potato gun either).  But look at a newspaper and, no matter how much I screw up my face and squint, I can't read anything past the headlines without a magnifying glass.  Or at times a telescope.

So rewiring the ceiling light, in the half dark of course with the power turned off, standing on a chair to reach, with screws the size of an ant's head (without the useful antennae markers), and my neck bent back 90 degrees, was a bit of a challenge.  Discovering the fitting instructions were in Dutch didn't help.  Anyway, I finally connected the schroefs to the draads and  . . . we have light.

But it occurred to me, as I sat here trying to ease my neck joints back into shape and swallowing Paracetamol to ease the incipient headache, that this is a great metaphor for life.  I don't mean that having guidance in an incomprehensible foreign tongue and eventually seeing the light is what life is all about, although it might be.  But that sometimes we have to step back to see properly what's going on.

It doesn't matter how strong my binoculars are, it doesn't matter how high the chair is, it certainly doesn't matter how far back I force my head nor into what grotesque shape I contort my body, I can't see that damn screw and take in what is required until I retreat a little.  And shouldn't we all do that more often to get a fix on how the detail relates to the broad picture? 

Sometimes small things become too important.  At times what is just a part of the whole takes on the appearance and significance of the whole of the whole.  Sometimes we have to back off to see what's really important.  And then we hit the stupid thing with a big hammer and it's done.